My topic today SHE vs SHE << an interesting subject to say the least right! There’s so much I could cover in this and I definitely will strive to HOWEVER I will not bore you to death I promise ha-ha. I was reflecting on a few things in regards to modesty, relationships the way society is going and most importantly the female, and the topic of SHE came to mind. The she being women over the years and how far we have diminished when it comes to how we carry ourselves, speak, dress, express our emotions and more. Hence the title SHE vs SHE. I began to ask myself where has our Moral Code gone? Why have we fallen so far down from who we were once upon a time? There WAS a time not too long ago when we were treated with respect, chivalry was apart and the epitome of society, and not just a word or act lost in the deserts of the Sahara, love for both sexes were there and the mystery of the woman was enticing!
Now a days in order to find such a time and a world we can only see this through TV/FILM screens just so we can reminisce of how it used to be, although the art isn’t completely lost, because you still have a small minority of men and women who live by that code of etiquette, chivalry and romance, however where do you find such men and women lol one would have to take a trip to the furthest ends of the Earth to find them tucked away in a small village somewhere (covers face) needless to say I wanted to take my beautiful readers down memory lane and show the old and new generation what it felt like and what it looked like to live in an era of true joy and art!
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Take a look at my first example from women from the 1950’s-60’s vs women now in the 21st century, you can see the EXTREME difference right! (O)_(O ). The poses alone show that the women had a sense of self love, they were proud with who they were, they had an element of poise and mystery about them that enticed you, versus the sex sex sex that you see in their component or future selves! Tell me ladies which one would you want to be? Which one would a man a proper man go for? Which one would he be proud to showcase on his arm beside him not being afraid to proudly open her door, let her go first when entering a building or walking on the outside of the pavement so she wouldn’t get splashed if there was a puddle! (sighs in love) (smile).
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We have to realise that the art of mystery has been lost from the female. The women from yester year vs the women of today have changed dramatically. Females have become too brazen, too suggestive, too flirtatious, too manly so on and so forth. The characteristics and traits that made up our DNA have been lost to society and its somewhat downward evolution. Now I’m sure I’ve hit a nerve somewhere when I suggested females have become too brazen etc. etc., and I’m not one to be rude or offend anyone HOWEVER one has to look at the TRUTH of it, and I know the TRUTH PIE can have a nasty taste :) but it must be done. Of course me being me I will show you the two extremes visually :D. But before I do I would like to make clear that there is nothing wrong with being strong in your personality as a female, yes a woman must have a little spicy kick to her, however not to the point where the man or other females are completely turned off by your whole presence, and you find it hard to hold down a relationship with those around you. Please understand that I am no one to preach trust me on that, but there has to be a BALANCE I promise you.
Men whether they say it or not really do love a woman of mystery, if everything isn’t on show and one carries herself a certain way, then they know they CAN NOT get you for free, one HAS to put in the CORRECT WORK because you are WORTHY. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Then again how can this be or how can he fulfil his role if NOTHING and I mean NOTHING is left to the imagination? Hmm yes I see you side eyeing this screen (smile) if you don’t believe me go back and check out the blog I did about MEN and the many interviews I had, where they all, in a general consensus said the same thing!
Still don’t believe me! Let’s watch some videos! (Side Note: you do not have to watch all the videos to the end, although that would be nice :) but study them quickly so you are able to see my point)
Let us bring to the stand women of the 1950’s and 60’s
Yesss I see you nodding your head and singing along hmmm (smile) there was poise, etiquette, a sense of self, politeness and more! NOW some of the women of the 21st Century! (Please excuse any foul language)
Yes I hear you saying WOW right, what a way we have fallen! But I’m not done let’s give you some more examples! Back in the 1950’s and 60’s there was more emphasis on etiquette, family and EVEN dating do’s and don’ts! One cannot forget or overshadow the ongoing segregation and racism in that time, hence why I did not find many videos on black male and female relationships, or how men treated them in that era, however the music and the view of women via men especially black men, was of a higher standard than it is today. With this being the Motown era there was more romance, songs had more substance and you got the feeling that these men would do ANYTHING to win the heart of their beloved. Yes I see a smile arising, well follow me to the TIME VAULT and we will see >>
Oh wait we haven’t finished yet! Let us come forward to the SHE of the 21st Century (CAUTION EXCUSE ALL SEXUAL CONTENT! AS I SAID BEFORE, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WATCH ALL OF THE VIDEO BUT YOU WILL UNDERSTAND MY POINT) >>>
I knowww I know! You’re in true shock right! *sniffles* me too, but all of this was for educational purposes I promise. Can you see the SHE of yester year vs the SHE of today has completely gone array, it feels like we’ve entered the twilight zone right! Now that you’ve seen a small glimpse into the SHE vs SHE saga which SHE do YOU want to be? Again ladies there is nothing wrong with being FEMMINIE, being BEAUTIFUL, feeling SEXY, LOVING YOURSELF and most of all being MODEST! ALL of this can be achieved being MODEST in your Spirit, Mind, Body and Soul with a dash of mystery to you, I promise you Men will begin to RESPECT and LOOK at you differently, try it out, not just for the likes of MEN but for YOURSELF and I PROMISE you, YOU will LOVE the results.
“Lady Etiquette: Respect Yourself, if you don’t others won’t either. Remember, the world sees what you put out there, so hold yourself to a high standard of grace and elegance.~ NewlyMynted”
Until Next Time My Lovelies
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